How do models react to rudeness?

We all experience rudeness from time to time. This happens in everyday life: in queues, in transport and, of course, at work. The video chat model is not immune from communicating with unpleasant people and simply boors. How to react to rudeness? How not to spoil your mood and not get involved in meaningless conflicts?

People can be rude for various reasons. Let's figure out why and how to get out of a conflict situation?

Victim's position

Boors, rude people and energy vampires do not bother everyone. They usually choose as victims people who do not have particularly high self-esteem, who are shy and vulnerable. If you are like this, then you need to work on yourself, become more confident. In the meantime, you can fight off boors in different ways.

• 1. Control yourself. Boors should not feel your confusion and uncertainty. With a high degree of probability then they will not attack you.

• 2. Agree with the provocateur. Then the communication will become simply absurd, and people who watch the dialogue will laugh. As a rule, in such cases the manipulators fall silent.

• 3. Include humor. Respond to rudeness with jokes. Under no circumstances be rude in response.

• 4. State the facts. If you are rude, tell the person directly that he is rude and you do not want to communicate with such people.

• 5. Confuse the impudent man. For example, a person has been telling you some offensive things for a long time, and there is no end in sight. Start sneezing and blowing your nose. Then say, “Sorry, I’m allergic to your bullshit. So where are we?

All of these methods are quite effective, and rude people will most likely leave you alone. However, you still need to work on your own self-esteem. Then there will be fewer boors in your life and profession.

The rude guy has communication problems

Many people are rude because they simply don't know how to communicate. They really want to talk to you, but they themselves understand that they are not able to say anything interesting. Then, in order to somehow attract attention, they begin to be rude.

Dealing with this category of people is not difficult. When communicating with them, follow a few rules:

• 1. Politeness and once again politeness. A boor is rude to make you angry, to make you be rude in response, to get nervous, and to fall into a state of aggression. Don't give in to provocations. Icy politeness will quickly infuriate your opponent, and he will leave the conversation or at least fall silent.

• 2. Use templates. Energy Internet vampires are really looking forward to a strong reaction to their antics. Don't give them such pleasure. Answer every rude statement in monosyllables. You can even create a template and simply insert it at the right time. For example: “You violated the rules of the resource. The administration asks you to follow the rules." Soon the troll will get bored.

• 3. Be sudden. For example, they wrote you some kind of rude message. In response, ask with what score did yesterday’s Russia-Belgium match end or did Juanita finally marry Don Pedro?

They are afraid of you

This is another reason why people are rude online and in real life. They are very insecure and often envious. Hence these attacks of anger. The “Napoleon” option is possible. A man who enters the chat sees a gorgeous girl in a good mood, popular. He understands that he cannot be interesting to her. And therefore he tries in every possible way to belittle her.

What to do with these? Have pity on them. In fact, these are deeply unhappy people with low self-esteem. You can even give such a user some kind of compliment. Isn't it difficult for you? And he, perhaps, will understand that everything in this world is not so bad.

Universal method

Ignoring will save you in any situation. Pretend that you don't notice the rude person at all. Chat with other guests and go about your business. It should be just an empty place for you, not worth your precious attention.

Indeed, you are beautiful. You have a job and everything is fine in life. Why then waste your time and energy on rude, ill-mannered people? You still have something to do without it.

No one is immune from rudeness. But don't let it ruin your mood and feed off your energy.